1 What They Don’t Tell You About Dating a Writer

Opeyemi Ojo (OPME)
2 min readOct 5, 2020

They don’t tell you

How much you’ll want them to be in love so you can give them the chance of writing the story that will change everything

How you pray to God daily for the strength to be good

How you fear making mistakes that leave scars, always wondering which antagonist will be modeled after you

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They don’t tell you

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How badly you’ll want to be the king of their story

How you’ll scan every word, every letter, focused on the italics and the bolds,

Trying to analyze what they say

Trying to find the parts of their life that they snuck in

Trying to find the parts of you they snuck in

Cause you’ve heard

That writers always put a part of themselves in their work

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They don’t tell you

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That falling in love with a writer is falling in love with

All the words of the alphabet

Memorizing the rules of the letters

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Each time you take the cover off

Each time you flick the page

Each time you fold the edge to hold your place

Each time you stroke the spine

Each time you lick a finger to flip the page

Each time you breathe in the paper

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They don’t tell you

How you’ll want to know who they are

How you want their heart to be for you

How you want them to write about you softly

To write your name, to write your story

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They don’t tell you

That they’ll have power over you

Their words will have power over you

From their mouth or the pen

They’ll have power over your mind

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What they don’t tell you about dating a writer could fill up a book, but will end with this line.

Opeyemi Ojo (OPME)

Opeyemi Ojo took a hiatus from poetry to focus on a newfound love for short stories. She soon returned to poetry, proving that you never forget your first.